Tips on dating asian women
Somewhere in the minds of the males from the west is the thought that every Japanese woman could give a man the experience of a geisha.
Well, not quite, but then, unless you date one, you will never really find out, will you?
But not just any type of White guy; I’m referring to the special breed of White men who will initiate conversation with a good-natured ‘Nihao, baby,’ compliment you on how genteel you are compared to your rambunctious White counterpart, and have a list of exes whose familial origins are predictably, and nearly exclusively, from the same continent.
That’s right, girls — find yourselves a nice man with yellow fever.
No Japanese dating tips will be enough for you if you do not know how to treat a woman right.
This satirical piece arises from the personal experiences of the author, who recognizes the diversity of other experiences and histories.
However, if you would like to date a woman and marry her eventually, then much more is involved.
Growing up, Western discourses of beauty overshadowed my developing sense of self.
Flirt with her, without indicating right out that you want to sleep with her. Learn something of the Japanese dating culture Are the Japanese dating customs the same as what you have back at home? Thus, you are most likely to see many Japanese women walking hand in hand with foreign men, but it is not likely to see foreign women walking hand in hand with Japanese men. There is something that Japanese women look for, and it can only be found in foreign men.
This is most likely the affection, the pet names and so on, because Japanese men are shy and more held back when expressing their affection.
The author strongly encourages continuing dialogue on the specificities and nuances behind the exotification, objectification, and fetishization of Asian women.
you’re anything like me, identifying as an East Asian woman in our hegemonically¹ White society presents bicultural² challenges in all facets of life.