Patti stanger rules of dating
So, you wouldn’t suggest Googling or stalking a potential date through social media? Like, to see that there aren’t 20 girls on the Internet saying that he stuck them with the bill or that he stranded them in a restaurant.
But if you’re doing it a) to find out their net worth or b) see what their story is, then you’re going to snooze, you lose.
You can change a man’s wardrobe, you can cut his hair, you can shave his beard, straighten his teeth.
We have more opportunity to meet people we’ve never met before, internationally, not just in the United States. It’s so strange, especially men versus women, there is always going to be someone better around the corner.
I always show women’s pictures to men, but not the other way around. They would be like, "Well, I don’t like the fact that he wore a ring and jewelry." And I’m sitting there thinking, "What the hell?! If the kiss is bad, you’ll end up just staying friends.
"So, it’s actually more that women are more critical of the way men present themselves. Then there’s also when the chemistry is off the chain, like with my boyfriend.
Say what you want about Patti Stanger, aka Bravo's Millionaire Matchmaker (and you could say a lot — the woman isn't exactly known for being reserved), but the career matchmaker and dating expert knows a thing or two about the language of love.
Or, at least, the language of prepping two strangers for an awkward date and hoping they've followed her advice.