Gaijin dating japanese girls
After she graduated high school, she went to a uni with a really high concentration of foreign students.
She spoke very, very good English and it was a little saddening that she was learning it specifically to net herself a husband. I wonder if she's achieved her dream, and whether she's ended up with someone awesome or if karma handed her a complete tool whose greatest dream was to marry a Japanese woman - I can believe that.
Definitely not enough for a family long-term, and possibly not enough for a solid date.
Dependent on a girls age (younger girls care less), this could be a significant deterrent when it’s layered on top of other reasons in this list.
Charai, or the Japanese phrasing of such, is basically being called a “player.” While you can gently toss it aside (or defend yourself valiantly), chances are you already in the hole.
I had a friend whose husband never gave her sex at home anymore after their second child.
He was one of those Japanese guys that work so hard and even bring work home.
It’s not just conversation that makes this a turn off either. Very few couples are interracial, and of those that progress to marriage, the overwhelming majority are actually between a Japanese man and a foreign women (source).
If a foreigner guy’s language doesn’t progress with the relationship, he’ll have to rely on her progressively for understanding all sorts of issues: visas, taxes, healthcare, education, your haircut, ordering your food, her holding his hand to cross the street… Of Japanese women who get married, 1.3% marry a foreigner (source).