Discussion topics for online dating
Have you ever pushed your body further than you dreamed possible? If you were heading out on a road trip right this minute, what would you pack? What’s something you’ve tried, that you’ll never, ever try again?
If you had an extra 0 to spend on yourself every week, what would you do? What do you value most: free time, recognition, or money? What’s one thing you’re deeply proud of — but would never put on your résumé? What’s the hardest thing you ever had to write — and why? What’s the most out-of-character choice you’ve ever made? If you had just 24 hours to live, what would you want to do with your time?
Is there something that people consistently ask you for help with?
If you wrote romance novels or erotic fiction, what would your “pen name” be?
If you could master any instrument on earth, what would it be? What was your proudest moment from the past twelve months? What was your worst haircut / hairstyle of all time? When you see peers / competitors getting things you want, how do you react? Who is the last person that deeply disappointed you? ) Would you consider yourself an introvert, extrovert, or ambivert? Would you rather have a live-in massage therapist, or a live-in chef?
Questions to spark stories, draw out a few secrets, trigger a few belly laughs…
If you could sit down with your 15-year old self, what would you tell him or her? What’s one dream that you’ve tucked away for the moment? What’s one mistake you keep repeating (and repeating)? What’s the worst piece of advice you’ve ever been given? What are you most grateful for, right now, in this moment?
If you could save one endangered species from extinction, which would you choose? What’s going to be carved on your (hypothetical) tombstone? What’s in your pocket (or purse, or man-purse) right now? What’s your most urgent priority for the rest of the year? What’s your recipe for recuperating from extreme heartbreak? Would you rather have an extra 0 a day, or an extra 2 hours a day?
Have you ever been genuinely afraid for your physical safety?
Have you ever (actually) kept a New Year’s Resolution? ) Have you ever fantasized about changing your first name? Have you ever fantasized about writing an advice column?