Dating advice for high schoolers
The first step to take in a fragile situation is to read 4 C’s for Communicating with Your Teen. Then, sit down with your child and explain that you’d like to talk through the issue together.
However, Christian teens can get some idea of God’s expectations from certain Scripture verses: 1 Corinthians 13:4-7: “Love is patient, love is kind.
” If your child says, “Nothing,” gently let them know that “nothing” is not an option.
Then, perhaps you can make a suggestion that you both can live with.
Start the conversation with love by sharing how you love them unconditionally, as I discuss in my blog 8 Things Every Father Must Teach His Daughter. That’s why I’m talking to you about this, why I’m doing this, and why I’m making this decision.” Once they know you have their best interests at heart, you will be free to explain your thoughts.
When you address tough issues with your teen or adult child, it’s important to be clear, but not cruel; attack the problem, not the person.