Dating a man with no job
Unfortunately, no matter how hard she tries, she can’t teach a gorilla how to put down the toilet seat, pay for dinner, and write her sweet notes of nothing.
It’s too late, and eventually, the relationship fades. Above all else, I believe that the reason why we settle for someone suboptimal is because we believe we aren’t deserving of more. You don’t deserve to be mistreated or taken advantage of ever! Life isn’t worth living if there’s nobody special to share it with.
A much larger proportion of women (36%) prefer dates who own property.
(Then again, seeing as how real estate values have fared in recent years, it could just as easily be an indication of debt—even foolishness.) Homeownership may also be a sign that a man (or woman) is responsible and obviously capable of settling down—qualities that are highly desirable among singles who are keen on finding a life partner and settling down.There are way too many people who hate their jobs and keep on doing them, just like there are way too many women who settle for men who treat them poorly.What is it about non-ideal situations which makes us keep carrying on, doing nothing to change?When asked in the It’s Just Lunch survey, “Would you go out on a date with someone whom you knew was unemployed?” one-third of women responded with a flat “No.” A larger percentage (42%) gave “Maybe” as an answer with the stipulation, “I wouldn’t want to throw a lot of time into it unless they had a game plan for getting back on track.” Men were asked the same question, and roughly two-thirds said they’d be up for dating someone who was unemployed: 19% said they had no reservations whatsoever about going out with a woman without a job, and another 46% said they’d date an unemployed women but were interested in finding out how they spent their time not working.